Would You Rather Questions for Couples
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Questions about dates, travel, habits and the life you want together. They are made for a date night or a long drive, and they keep things sweet rather than spicy.
How to use these as a couple
Take turns reading a question and guess your partner's answer before they say it. Score a point for every right guess. You will learn more from the ones you get wrong.
They are made for date nights, long drives, a dinner out or getting to know someone new. Every question is clean, so they work for double dates and family game night too.
All would you rather questions for couples
- Would you rather have a fancy dinner date or have a picnic in the park?
- Would you rather travel the world together for a year or buy your dream home together?
- Would you rather always plan the dates or never plan a date again?
- Would you rather cuddle on the couch all weekend or go on an adventure all weekend?
- Would you rather know everything your partner is thinking or have your partner know everything you're thinking?
- Would you rather have a big wedding or elope somewhere beautiful?
- Would you rather share one phone or share one closet?
- Would you rather go on a beach vacation or go on a mountain cabin trip?
- Would you rather cook dinner together every night or eat out together every night?
- Would you rather get a dog together or get a cat together?
- Would you rather relive your first date or skip ahead to your 50th anniversary?
- Would you rather have your partner sing to you in public or have your partner write you a poem?
- Would you rather always agree on what to watch or always agree on where to eat?
- Would you rather live in the city together or live in the countryside together?
- Would you rather take a dance class together or take a cooking class together?
- Would you rather have breakfast in bed every Sunday or have a date night every Friday?
- Would you rather get matching tattoos or get matching outfits for a year?
- Would you rather go on a road trip or go on a cruise?
- Would you rather receive a handwritten love letter or receive a surprise weekend getaway?
- Would you rather always be the big spoon or always be the little spoon?
- Would you rather have your partner's sense of humor or have your partner's patience?
- Would you rather have a house full of plants or have a house full of pets?
- Would you rather celebrate every anniversary big or celebrate every anniversary quietly at home?
- Would you rather have a partner who's always early or have a partner who's always relaxed about time?
- Would you rather build a blanket fort together or stargaze together?
- Would you rather do every chore together or split every chore exactly in half?
- Would you rather know your partner's love language perfectly or have them know yours perfectly?
- Would you rather go on a hot air balloon ride or go on a sunset sailboat ride?
- Would you rather have a song that's just yours or have a restaurant that's just yours?
- Would you rather plan a surprise party for your partner or have them plan one for you?
- Would you rather watch a scary movie together or watch a romantic comedy together?
- Would you rather have date night at home or have date night out?
- Would you rather take a photo together every day or write in a shared journal every week?
- Would you rather redo your first kiss or redo your first fight?
- Would you rather have your partner meet your childhood self or meet your partner's childhood self?
- Would you rather have a partner who loves to cook or have a partner who loves to clean?
- Would you rather always share dessert or always get your own dessert?
- Would you rather spend a holiday with your family or spend a holiday with their family?
- Would you rather go camping together or go glamping together?
- Would you rather have a partner who texts all day or have a partner who calls once at night?
- Would you rather grow old in your hometown or grow old somewhere new?
- Would you rather take a pottery class together or take a painting class together?
- Would you rather have the same hobbies or have totally different hobbies?
- Would you rather be famous as a couple or be totally private as a couple?
- Would you rather go to a concert together or go to a comedy show together?
- Would you rather have a partner who's a great gift giver or have a partner who's a great listener?
- Would you rather redecorate your home together or plan a vacation together?
- Would you rather do a puzzle together or play a video game together?
- Would you rather have a morning routine together or have a bedtime routine together?
- Would you rather get flowers every week or get a handwritten note every week?
- Would you rather live in a tiny house together or live in a huge house together?
- Would you rather go to a theme park or go to a museum?
- Would you rather have one perfect day together or have a thousand ordinary good days?
- Would you rather always win arguments or always end arguments with a laugh?
- Would you rather have your partner surprise you or know exactly what's planned?
- Would you rather dance in the kitchen or sing in the car?
- Would you rather spend a year living abroad together or spend a year renovating a house together?
- Would you rather have a partner who's a morning person or have a partner who's a night owl?
- Would you rather have your love story written as a book or have it made into a movie?
- Would you rather take a sunrise hike together or sleep in together?
How to play
Read a question out loud and give everyone five seconds to pick a side. No "neither," no "both." Then go around the group and have each person defend their answer.
Playing solo? Tap your answer above to see how everyone else voted, then hit Next. Each question has its own page with its live results, so you can send the tough ones to friends.
Questions people ask
What are good would you rather questions for couples?
A few favorites: "Would you rather have a fancy dinner date or have a picnic in the park?" "Would you rather travel the world together for a year or buy your dream home together?" "Would you rather always plan the dates or never plan a date again?" The full list is above, and every question links to its live vote results.
How do you play would you rather?
One person reads a question, everyone picks a side, then each player explains their choice. On this page, tap an answer to vote and see the live split, then hit Next for another question.