Deep Would You Rather Questions

Cut along the dashed lines. Draw a card, read it out loud, and everyone picks a side.

Would you rather…

ABe remembered for your kindness

or

BBe remembered for your achievements?

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Would you rather…

AHave one conversation with your younger self

or

BHave one conversation with your older self?

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Would you rather…

AFind one purpose and keep it forever

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BFind a new purpose every decade?

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Would you rather…

AKeep every friend you've ever made

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BMake a brand-new close friend every year?

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Would you rather…

AFeel everything more deeply

or

BFeel everything more calmly?

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Would you rather…

ABe truly understood by one person

or

BBe admired by thousands?

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Would you rather…

AKnow what your pet thinks of you

or

BKnow what your parents really thought of you as a kid?

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Would you rather…

AHave a life full of adventure

or

BHave a life full of deep friendships?

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Would you rather…

ALive the same life again with no changes

or

BLive a completely different life?

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Would you rather…

AKnow why you're here

or

BBe at peace not knowing?

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Would you rather…

ABe the one who always forgives

or

BBe the one who's always forgiven?

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Would you rather…

AHave a home you never want to leave

or

BHave a heart that always wants to wander?

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Would you rather…

ASpend a year in quiet reflection

or

BSpend a year saying yes to everything?

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Would you rather…

ABe loved for who you are now

or

BBe loved for who you could become?

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Would you rather…

AFind out what people say about you when you're not there

or

BNever find out?

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Would you rather…

ALet go of your biggest regret

or

BKeep it and the lesson it taught you?

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Would you rather…

AHear the one thing your best friend never told you

or

BTell them the one thing you never said?

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Would you rather…

AHave a life that looks perfect to others

or

BHave a life that feels perfect to you?

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Would you rather…

ATrust too easily

or

BTrust too little?

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Would you rather…

AKnow your life's biggest turning point in advance

or

BRecognize it only looking back?

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Would you rather…

ALeave behind a great work of art

or

BLeave behind a great group of friends?

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Would you rather…

ALive without ambition

or

BLive without contentment?

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Would you rather…

AKeep a promise that costs you

or

BBreak a promise to protect yourself?

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Would you rather…

ABe wise

or

BBe happy?

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Would you rather…

AMake one stranger's life completely better

or

BMake a thousand strangers' days a little better?

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Would you rather…

AFeel at home anywhere

or

BHave one place that feels like home forever?

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Would you rather…

AAlways see the best in people

or

BAlways see people exactly as they are?

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Would you rather…

ASpend your life with someone who challenges you

or

BSpend your life with someone who comforts you?

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Would you rather…

AHave every question you ask answered

or

BNever stop wondering?

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Would you rather…

ABe brave once when it really matters

or

BBe a little brave every day?

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Would you rather…

AHear what your friends would say about you in a speech

or

BRead what a stranger would write about your life?

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Would you rather…

ABe the reason someone believes in themselves

or

BBe the reason someone believes in people again?

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Would you rather…

AKnow your true potential

or

BNever feel limited by it?

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Would you rather…

AStart over in a new city where no one knows you

or

BStay where everyone knows you?

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Would you rather…

AChange your mind easily

or

BStand firm no matter what?

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Would you rather…

ABe someone's first love

or

BBe someone's last love?

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Would you rather…

AHave deep talks every night

or

BHave easy laughs every night?

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Would you rather…

AKnow who you'd be if you grew up somewhere else

or

BNever wonder about it?

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Would you rather…

AGive advice that changes someone's life

or

BReceive advice that changes yours?

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Would you rather…

ABe at peace with your past

or

BBe excited about your future?

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Would you rather…

ALive in a world where everyone is honest

or

BLive in a world where everyone is kind?

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Would you rather…

ASpend one more day with someone you've lost

or

BSpend one more day as a kid?

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Would you rather…

ABe known by everyone

or

BTruly know a few people?

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Would you rather…

AFollow your heart

or

BFollow your head?

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Would you rather…

ACarry one memory with you forever

or

BCarry one skill with you forever?

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Would you rather…

AMake peace with an old friend

or

BMake a new friend for life?

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Would you rather…

AFeel lonely in a crowd

or

BFeel content on your own?

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Would you rather…

AHave a life of quiet meaning

or

BHave a life of loud success?

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Would you rather…

ABe needed

or

BBe wanted?

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Would you rather…

ASee yourself the way others see you

or

BHave others see you the way you see yourself?

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Would you rather…

AUnderstand everyone

or

BBe understood by everyone?

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Would you rather…

AHave more courage

or

BHave more patience?

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Would you rather…

ABe the storyteller

or

BBe the story?

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Would you rather…

ANever feel regret

or

BNever feel nostalgia?

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Would you rather…

AKnow what your dreams mean

or

BRemember every dream you have?

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Would you rather…

ALeave the world a little kinder

or

BLeave the world a little more beautiful?

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Would you rather…

AFall in love slowly

or

BFall in love all at once?

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Would you rather…

AGrow old with your best friend

or

BGrow old surrounded by family?

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Would you rather…

AAlways know the right thing to say

or

BAlways know when to say nothing?

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Would you rather…

ABe proud of your past

or

BBe hopeful about your future?

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